maymay (maymaym)

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Got the laundry. I feel…homey…here. Is #home a kind of transient peace that comes with the foreboding, equable, quiet darkness of the night?

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#FreeIdea: Panel proposal, "Dress Codes—When are they useful vs discriminatory?" I can speak to "they're discriminatory" side. /cc @Zelamish

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Huh. @KinkOnTap's MX records were wonky, so if you sent me a donation, I just saw it now. Finding weeks of kind notes feels good. Thank you.

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Trouble #masturbating lately—some fantasies to help me reach orgasm have also left me despaired & sobbing afterward. SA http://goo.gl/7gCPR

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#Rape #culture's also a set of social norms prescribing #flirting in given ways. http://is.gd/zaEBNX frustrates me. SA http://goo.gl/0tDAv

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Most "'seeking a service slave' posts…always irked me." http://is.gd/aGNo1l "squash this myth that you can give little & receive big." !BDSM

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"Privilege" as a "difficulty setting": http://goo.gl/KbGwR Social justice metaphor reframed in terms familiar to RPG gamers. /cc @avantgame

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Not the day I wanted, but having an almost 7hr convo about kyriarchy w/@Dakania in front of @Apple Geniuses was a much-appreciated reprieve.

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Logic skip: Shortcut thru prior analysis eliding some intermediary steps; cf. "jumping to conclusions." SA "goto" #MaymayManual #terminology

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"'Safe space' should never mean 'safe from #triggers,' but '#safety TO trigger'; latter builds support, former is a police state." —@Dakania

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I feel like my ability to think ahead has shrunk over the past couple months; I was thinking a month, then a week, now not even a day ahead.

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"#sexism & #racism is a methodology—if 2 ppl follow methodology they['ll] both end up in…same place." —@Josephinetsui SA http://ur1.ca/98vkj

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What if all the $ used to spy on might-be terrorists—citizens—was spent looking for early warning signs of #suicide? #FreeIdea #surveillance

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I really need a human today. My mobile number is 323-963-4827. If you are in Portland & can spend the day keeping me company, pls call. Thx.

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My laptop's dead. You may not hear from me for a while. In fact, I'm undecided about whether you'll hear from me again. http://t.co/YLvGThwl

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Okay, then. Time for shutting off my brain cuz I can NOT fucking deal w/this reality. Let's see if I can survive a slightly altered one now.

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AUGH! This SUCKS & I KNEW it would & I'm SO angry & I have SO FEW emotionally supportive people in my life & NONE of them are available now.

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Being racist is not a right. ♺@lokkju: @maymaym If you consider defending someone's right to be racist to…be […] #racism […] perhaps I fit….

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If you have the wherewithal to challenge @Lokkju on his #racism, I hope you do so http://goo.gl/3UJfa especially if you interact in person.

maymay

Dealt w/trigger I didn't even know I had last night, got me feeling too sensitive to survive. Today I saw http://goo.gl/6dQPV which helped.